Premature ejaculation ( in men) : जल्दी क्या है??

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Not an expert but answering to the best of my knowledge, experience and understanding. ( So correct me.)

Most men who believe they ejaculate premature, aren't suffering from clinical premature ejaculation . Yes, if you last one minute+, it's not premature ejaculation and can easily be extended upto 10+ minutes or even an hour by little bit of psychological training and lowering the excitement level.

Give up the idea ( and the parallel imagination) that things should go the way they go in porn. Coz porn is a fake world but you are real , your penis is real ( just check!). Do you drink water imagining how beautifully somebody else drank special kind of water in style from a golden glass on the other day (in a movie)? No. When you are thirsty and water is available, you just drink it gracefully. For the pleasure of it, you don't drink it too fast for it might spill all over or go down your arteria to chock the respiratory inlet. Body has enough inbuilt understanding of these acts unless your mind starts interfering. Same goes with sexual intercourse and masturbation, as body can't differentiate the two. It's only your imagination & emotions that can differentiate the two and can make it more pleasant, beautiful or more stressful.

For clinical premature ejaculation, you should seek the solution from experts coz you have reached a state where your harmones are out of control & coordination.

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VKJ)

"Why do certain configurations of matter cause that matter to light up with awareness?" Experiencing a few moments of Mindfulness amidst the chaos. suchabrieflife@gmail.com

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